Friday, December 20, 2013

#SHE'S Part Garifuna!

In celebration of my friend Guildia's upcoming 30th birthday, I decided to flash back on when I visited her home country.  Have you ever thought about seeing what Central America looks like?  I mean, besides looking at the pictures of the forests and wilderness, what about its beaches?  The local people who not only maintain them, but live on them? The homes in the smaller towns, outside of the city?  Outside of the oh so famous, zip line tourist areas?  













What about having to fly into the capital, then take a four hour private taxi, to get on a boat for another thirty minutes, to finally land at your destination? Welcome to  Livingston "La Buga", Guatemala.







My very good friend Guildia, is from this town. Born and raised before relocating and settling in the Bronx. She was the first Black person I met, well I should say first Black person that I realized was Black from a Central American country.  It was not until she explained it all to me, that I learned that there were African descent people in Central America, in most cases, Garifuna people.  Growing up in the USA, in public NYC schools, when you learn about slavery, you are only taught about the slavery that had taken place in the USA and some parts of the West Indies if you are lucky, and not any place else.  You are not taught that Central America was also a slave trade port.  I will never forget our first conversation about it:

Me: You have a different accent, where are you from?
Guildia: I'm from Guatemala.
Me: There aren't Black people in Guatemala.
Guildia: (sternly) Yes there are.
Me: I've never heard of that ever!
Guildia: (Cheeks red) How could you not know that?!
It was after this conversation, I had to tell her, "Flash back to when you first came to this country, and you started taking History and Social Study courses.  Do you recall there every being a reference of the Slave trade in Central America?"  And that's when she remembered herself, there wasn't.  


Boy I was scared when he picked up that wild Chicken
I have to say, when you meet people, get to know them, especially those who are not from where you are, and take the time to travel to where they are, you learn so much more than what a text book may tell you, or what the school curriculum will teach you. My chance came when she invited me to come to her country, her town in 2009. Talk about CULTURE SHOCK!! I think this experience opened doors for me where I have become a bit obsessed with cultures of the world. 

Local boys playing Punta music





















I am one for all about exploring a new place with the local people, before I go to that place just for a leisure vacation.  However, I did not prepare myself fully.  The biggest hindrance for me was that I did not speak Spanish.  I understood it but did not speak it fluently.  So it was hard for me and my little boy crush to, G's cousin, to communicate.  But one thing we knew, we liked one another.  He played shy initially, but I knew he would come around eventually LOL!


We went down during a time of what is called "Semana Santa", Holy Week or Easter Week.  In most Christian countries around the world, there is a week long celebration of the Rising of Christ, Easter.  Some places re-enact the death and the rising of Christ on Easter Sunday.  La Buga, takes part in this ritual every year.  With real whips, real blood, a real crown made from thorns on the person who is re-enacting Jesus' walk with a replica Cross to carry.  That first slap on his back with the whip is what catches everyone's attention.  You can't help but cry.  Kids part take in this event as well.  They fortunately come out before the last faithful walk for Jesus Christ.  This is something you almost never see in the USA.



I didn't expect us to run into so many people who came down from the US for that week.  We practically ran into the entire East Side of the Bronx, and parts of Brooklyn. Most Garifuna people reside in these areas in NYC.  So I wasn't totally left in the dark when having to speak to other people that we ran into because, they spoke English as well.  This turned into one big hangout celebration for all of us. Seven days of fun in the sun, food, special beverages, and "Punta" music nightly at the local Discoteca's on the beach.  Did I mention, from Guildia's house, you can see Belize? Oh, you can catch a boat ride right on over to Belize, just about anytime. Just have your passport ready.
Long walk to quiet beach. This bridge was scary!!

Walk along the beach to the next bar!
The feast her cousin cooked. Miss it soo much! LOL
I enjoyed myself so much, that I returned the following year with G.  I loved being immersed into the culture, the food, and seeing people of African descent in a place that's kind of a hidden gem.  I even noticed that the African culture is, this many years later, still part of their tradition, all the way down to the food.  Yes, there is a blend of Latin culture as well, seeing as the town is also shared/blended with the native Mayan Indians.  The elders play a big part in the discipline of the children and young adults of the town.  You greeted them every time you passed, "Buenas", and you did not curse in front of them, and in return, if you were good, you got the best hugs and kisses, along with a nice place of food LOL (I love to eat).  G's cousin actually cooked for us one day.  With the 2 burner stove that she had, and the ingredients we purchased, she made one of the best Stew Chicken dishes I have every had!  Myself, G, and her cousins kids gobbled it up so fast!!
You sometimes think you have it bad until you run into people who have it worse.  They still wore a smile, they were still pleasant, they did not complain about their living conditions or how tight money was.  They were content in their world, and were happy to see other people come and take witness to it.  Most of the people who visit this area, are tourist/explorers from Europe.  There are hotels that are located on the island, but, they have strict rules and are monitored closely for people who reside in the hotels.  Most of the tourists come to explore, more than relax on the beaches.  It is definitely a place where you will get a combination of both and feel safe all at the same time.  I can say you felt that way on the island than in the city, assuming because everyone knows one another, and the violence is almost non-existent. 

Boat we hopped off of to Playa Blanca.

Playa Blanca, was such a lovely experience in itself.  It started with another boat ride, about 15-20 minute ride to the destination.  Along the way, we saw Manitees swiming right next to us.  I was scared.  Then we docked...in the water.  We had to jump in and walk to the shore.  To feel how warm the water was, was so awesome!  We were greeted by a man whose family actually lives and owns the land, and lives off of it.  For a small fee, equivalent to about $2 US, you get not only entrace to the beach, but you get treated like royalty!
Arrived and looking for a spot in Playa Blanca.
With his son, they had hammocks already hung up, wooden hand made place mats for you to lay your towel on top of on the beach. Their were showers where the shower heads were made out of sea shells that he carved himself!  The beach was so clean.
His kids came and asked you about 5 times, if you would like to buy Coconut water. LOL. I think my Spanish was getting better each time I told him "No Thank You, with adding on more each time so he would get the hint. I suggest when you visit this place, you have plenty of sunscreen, sunglasses, and room in your belly for the home made, NATURAL food that you will get at the restaurants. They do take time to make, as everything is made from scratch and does not come out as fast as what we are used to in the USA.


Have you every thought to visit other parts of Central America, other than the usual Costa Rica?  What about Honduras, Belize, Guatemala, to name a few?  Thankfully enough, I have friends from the first two, so I shall make my way there as well! HA!


Tuesday, November 26, 2013

#BABY BROTHER JET SETS

I wanted to share with all of you, an excerpt from my little brother Anthony.  He's 22 years old. A recent Graduate of Binghamton University here in New York, and since the age of 5, has been a world class traveler.  Along with myself, he's also been to Bermuda, England, and Nova Scotia to name a few. However, he has been to MANY other places, most of them, more than once.   So many times to Italy, that the man who sells meat in the square, knows who he is when he passes through (-__-).

I want you to take a look into how traveling has opened up his eyes and doors for him.  I am a proud sister, extremely ecstatic that he has surpassed me in the aspect of living life starting early. Tear

His friends home in Dominican Republic.  He's just laying in the sun.


NO TURNING BACK

My name is Anthony Coursey. I am 22 years old and love to travel. 

Traveling at times can be expensive, but I believe traveling at any point in time is money well spent. What you get from traveling is simply great life experiences and an abundance of different cultural views. Traveling to the extent I have has made me realize that it is something you must do while you’re young because once your older the opportunity to travel frequently dwindles away quickly. 


I studied abroad in Spain two years ago and fell in love with it. This past September I moved back to Spain to be an English teacher and I think it’s probably the best decision I have made in my life. Not only have I returned to my favorite country, but I am here for 2 years and I have the opportunity to experience all that Europe has to offer. 

Madrid
My father’s side of the family has always made it clear to me that traveling is truly life changing and important. Before I studied abroad I had already visited London, Maidstone (South East England), Venice, Florence and Rome thanks to them. And that’s just Europe! I went to a Dance Camp in Nova Scotia, Canada with my cousin and I have gone on surfing trips to Costa Rica, Puerto Rico and the Dominican Republic. 

When I was in Spain as a student two years ago, I visited Munich, Amsterdam, Lisbon, Lagos (Portugal), Florence, Pisa, Barcelona, Valencia, Tel-Aviv, Athens, The Canary Islands, Marrakesh, Rabat, Casablanca and a small surfing town called Safi in Morocco.

Now that I am back in Spain I have already been back to Lisbon, Portugal and over the next six weeks I will continue my travels all over. I am visiting Geneva, Switzerland. I am going snowboarding in Saint Lary (South of France) for a few days, and I will be visiting Paris and Berlin. Within the next year I plan to make it to Budapest, Prague and Brussels. 

Morocco

Morocco
I am a recent college graduate and owe lots of money in college loans, but I’m not sweating it. I have accepted the fact that I will be paying them off for 10 years, maybe more, and I’m going to life it up while I can. I know when I return home to the United States, corporate world America will be waiting for me. I’m not saving much money in Spain because I have to pay back loans, but the same situation would happen if I was back home in NYC working every day. 

Moving around the world teaches you many things. It isn't for everyone. It takes a special type of person to be able to do what we do. Packing up all your things into two carry-on bags and two checked pieces of luggage is a struggle in and of itself and imagine all the things you don’t want to leave behind. Your mother will go through that luggage and make you narrow it down to seven cardigans instead of seventeen, or remind you that "those shorts still don’t fit and haven’t fit for 3 years, and you should probably just let them go". Along with letting those shorts go you are also letting go of friendships, relationships, and comfort.

Portugal
Someone once told me that the reason we move to new countries is because we are either running from or running to something. I laughed and thought they were crazy. I just wanted a change; there was no rationale to my choice. The more I thought about it, the more I realized they were right. I wasn’t just running from something, I was sprinting as far as I could. I am running away from the simple life, where everyone works 9-5 at a desk or doing some other typical white collar job. If I have to life that life anyways, at one point or another, I might as well get the most of what the world has to offer while I’m young and have plenty of time to do so. What I didn’t realize was that this choice has now started the foundation of my future. Just like a tattoo, you get that first little taste and you want more and more. 


When my job comes to an end in Spain two years from now I want to move somewhere else for a little. Preferably somewhere warm and near a beach. San Diego, California sounds like a cool place to me. My entire family is from New York and I know I will be there in the future no matter what. For me there is just no turning back!
Portugal


Wednesday, November 13, 2013

#HER Intro...

Welcome Fellow Travelers!

Thank you for taking the time to tune into my blog.  Actually, this is my first one! HA!!  So bare with me!

The idea of travel, getting away from your main place of home and work, can release some new thoughts and beliefs that will have you addicted to the idea, after you have had that one GREAT experience!

My intro to this lifestyle, was thankfully brought to me by my family, my father Frank, and his family. They believed that travel not only gave you insight on other places, but rather than just read about, go there and see for yourself!  It will expand your knowledge.  Thanks to them, I began traveling at the age of 12 and gained so much exposure!

First place I visited, was Nova Scotia, Canada, for an Annual Dance Camp that my cousin Debbie would attend.  We would drive to Portland, Maine, catch a cruise ship that carries cars, and would drive from the landing point to where the dance camp was.  Talk about a long ways to travel!

 
 
Followed by that, my Uncle Phil and Aunt Lolly, took me out of school for 2 weeks, (teachers were not thrilled) and flew me to England, alone! My uncle Phil is from there, so it was perfect to see where he grew up.  We toured from the South of England (his hometown), the Isle of Wight (photoed below) and worked our way North within those 2 weeks.  Later in that year was followed by them flying me to Bermuda, where my Uncle had now attained new employment. That's where I first swam in clear  ocean water and snorkeled.  I got so scared once I saw the 5 squid in front of me, that I didn't stay in the water long. Kept my butt close to the shore. Seeing fish around my feet frightened me.  Man I did plenty traveling between 12 and 13! 



I continued to road trip with friends in college. I sort of hated it because those drives to me, were always so damn long, but I always made sure my behind was in a seat. Why?  I WANTED TO GET OFF THAT CAMPUS!! LAWD!! LOL! Trust, being in the middle of nowhere in Virginia, any place away from that campus, was a relief.  Most of the time though, I was always on the hunt for a ride to D.C. at least, then catch the bus to NYC, just to get my hair done most times! HA! Those were fun, but I grew out of driving long distance.

I love the smell of jet fuel. I love being able to hop on a plane and be in the air and know that I will be landing somewhere else, seeing something new, getting a gorgeous view of that place when I come in to land. Being served the unlimited beverages and now on some flights...a whole bottle of wine...YES CHILE!! THE LIFE! (Is what is going through my head lol)

With things happening in my life more so as of late, I even realized that someday, I would like to relocate to another country, preferably the Caribbean.  The idea of being able to get off work, or even on the weekends, just relax on a beach and take in the sights and a few special beverages, is breathtaking in my opinion.  After you have spent so much time around one type of lifestyle, and do not get me wrong, I am a Bronx native, city girl deep down to my soul, a girl needs time to get away to something new and just a little more awesome. I am trying to make sure however, I am able to hop on a plane whenever I would like, to come back to NYC, when needing that city spirit brought to life again LOL.

I decided to team up with a wonderful lady whom had booked 2 of my trips in the past. Considering the changes and questions we had, she made sure we were taken care of.  So I said to myself, since this is something you love to do, on top of that, love to plan events as well, why not go ahead and join her team.  We are promoting the same thing together.  I think even now that I am an Independent Travel Agent of TropicalTravel.net, some of my scared friends will be willing to leave somewhere with me once things takes off. 

I am trying to reach many places: Thailand, Greece, Africa, Amsterdam, and Australia God willing.  In the meantime however, I will start small and closer by, the Caribbean, especially for Carnivals (I'm totally addicted).
Join me on my journey!  Tell me some of yours!